Here is my question and I would appreciate any serious answers.
Lets say you have 4 children and 8 grandchildren. Twelve is a good Scriptural number. God came to you and said I have some wonderful news! As you know all of the 12 are sinners and do not deserve my love nor my grace but one of them is going to receive my unmerited favor and I am going to forgive them and take them to heaven with me.
I want YOU to pick which one gets the blessing of my grace.
How would YOU choose one of the 12?
I am sure you are connecting the dots here or I certainly hope you are because that is exactly what Calvinism says God does. This is why I see calvinism as detestable and abominable.